Des:Who decided that marriage was the goal? Her husband works so hard...she cant say I want to when she wants to. Ironically, its me working at the family registration division, watching happy couples come in to submit their marriage registrations. One day, a man came to my counter to submit divorce papers. For some reason, she was smiling even though she was getting divorced...I was a little jealous. At that time, I had no way of knowing that he was the person who was destined to change my life...